GOOD MEN STILL EXIST…
They’re just having an equally hard time trying to find and believe good women still exist. Men love a woman who can be unapologetically a woman. Women need to start embracing who they are inside and out and stop trying to change EVERYTHING about themselves.
The culture has shifted and an unprecedented number of women have embraced the man’s mentality for their own…not realizing women are created differently on purpose for a purpose. Balance. It’s okay to be beautiful, independent, strong, etc…but when did these things become something different all together? When did “beautiful” become sexy and become so revealing to the masses, instead of saving something to give to the one that’s deserving?
culture has shifted and an unprecedented number of women have embraced the man’s mentality for their own…not realizing women are created differently on purpose for a purpose.
While you may catch the eye of a good man, most good men ultimately want a woman who is choosy and modest in her seductiveness, a mystery to strangers. And when did “independent” become an excuse not to give a man the respect he deserves? A good man knows a good woman can hold her own, but a good man is there to help and lighten the load. He knows he doesn’t have to, but he wants to.
By nature, he is the provider, the leader. You want a man to step up, but when he tries, you deny him, because you can do it yourself. What is there for him to do and in the order of things, where does the respect and admiration that he wants from a woman comes into play if there is nothing for him to do? As much as a woman needs and wants for a man’s attention, so does a man need and want your admiration and respect. And when did “strong” become insensitive? And when did a woman who isn’t sensitive become the ideal?
A man has a hard enough time being “THE MAN” in every role he plays. He is the head, the leader, the provider…there’s a lot of understood expectation on him already from the time he wakes up to the time he goes to sleep. The last thing he wants to do at the end of a hard day is come home to someone as hard as him. At the end of the day, a man wants to be unapologetically a man with a woman who is unapologetically a woman.
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Roland Gilbert
As a Dale Carnegie Certified Trainer & Coach, my mission is to coach individuals for intentional, authentic living. This mission is accomplished through workshops, speaking, writing and coaching. For over 10 years I have trained leaders and have helped people grow. My experience includes working with several large manufacturing corporations, hundreds of individuals and groups, and as an active ministry worker of my church. Because of my diverse background I am able to help clients effectively address all aspects of life
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